Healthy Marriage Initiative

Three words that have historically stricken fear into the hearts of liberals fearing right-wing "family-values" conspiracies: Healthy Marriage Initiative. Last fall, CMCA received a grant award of nearly $500,000 per year for the next five years as part of the Head Start Healthy Marriage Initiative. While I was ecstatic to receive that kind of funding, I was a little nervous about the implication that we might become a dating service, wedding chapel, or spiritual counselor . . . none of which fit with our new Strategic Commitments. As it turns out however, what we are really talking about is supporting healthy relationships to benefit children. I attended a meeting today to start forming a statewide healthy marriage (relationship) initiative in Missouri with Dr. David Schramm. Among the fascinating information we got, I learned that "intervention research demonstrates that parent-child relationship quality and child behaviors were improved more by "Couples Education" than by "Parent Education" (Cowan & Cowan). That certainly puts an interesting twist on our efforts to work with Parents As Teachers and our own Head Start home visiting model. One could go many different directions with research related to healthy relationships but we also heard about one I had never considered. We know that unhealthy relationships between the adults in a child's life can lead to negative effects like maltreatment, depression, unhealthy stress levels, physical illness, and economic hardship but it also effects a child's quality and quantity of sleep. Why does that matter? A child's sleep patterns is directly connected to their cognitive performance, academic achievement, physical health, body mass index, and psychological adjustment! This information blew my mind. Dr. Schramm, in his remarks, indicated that marital agression in a child's life is a factor in childhood obesity. That may seem like a stretch, but when you consider the list of effects we already knew about crises, violence, and aggression in the home (maltreatment, depression, unhealthy stress levels, physical illness, and economic hardship), these factors line up with causes of obesity. When the parents of children, married or not, do the right things for their kids, they are greatly enhancing that child's ability to be successful. I am proud that we are diving into this arena with our partners at the University of Missouri. Following are the benefits we expect for healthy relationships among the following groups:

Adults: lower stress levels, better healthy habits and practices, better mental health, better physical health, greater financial well-being.

Children: improved school performance, decreased emotional/behavioral problems, decreased substance abuse, criminal activity and risky sexual behavior.

Workplace: Better employees, lower absenteeism, greater work commitment, greater job stability, higher levels of productivity.

Families and Communities: more involved fathers, better parenting, financial stability, homeowners, volunteers in communities, fewer risky behaviors/criminality.

I suspect I have another blog posting or two on this subject. What are your thoughts?